50 Bridesmaid Ask Ideas

Bridesmaid ask ideas are such an easy way to announce your big day and get your friends and family involved with your big day. There are so many different ways and ideas out there so today I’m sharing 50 different phrases to ask your friends and family to be a part of your special day. So whether you’re looking for classic, funny, rhyming, flattery, or honest you’ll find them all below.

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Bridesmaid Ask Ideas

Classic

First up is the classic category. Below you’ll find 11 phrases that work for anyone and most situations. They are some of our most popular designs.

1. All You Need is Love…

Bridesmaid Ask Ideas: All You Need is Love
Bridesmaid Ask Ideas: All You Need is Love

2. It’s My Turn to Pop the Question

It's My Turn to Pop the Question Bridesmaid Ask
It’s My Turn to Pop the Question Bridesmaid Ask

3. Will You Plan With Me, Stand With Me, Cry With Me, Laugh With Me, Hold My Dress When I Pee?

Bridesmaid Ask Quote
Bridesmaid Ask Quote

4. They Say I’ll Need Someone to Hold My Dress When I Need to Pee

Hold My Dress When I Pee Bridesmaid Ask
Hold My Dress When I Pee Bridesmaid Ask

5. Bridesmaid Defined

Bridesmaid Defined Ask Card
Bridesmaid Defined Ask Card

6. I Can’t Tie the Knot Without You

Can't Tie the Knot Without You Bridesmaid Ask
Can’t Tie the Knot Without You Bridesmaid Ask

7. Got the Guy, Need My Girls

Still Need My Girls Bridesmaid Ask
Still Need My Girls Bridesmaid Ask

8. It’s Hard to Believe That in Just a Little While, I’ll Be Walking Down that Aisle and Nothing Would Give Me More Joy and Pride to Have You at My Side

Bridesmaid Quote Ask Card
Bridesmaid Quote Ask Card

9. Keep Me Calm And…

Keep Me Calm Bridesmaid Ask Card
Keep Me Calm Bridesmaid Ask Card

10.  Will You Be My bouquet-carrying, dress-bustling, champagne-drinking, dance-floor-dazzling, bachelorette-partying Bridesmaid?

Bridesmaid Ask Quote Card
Bridesmaid Ask Quote Card

11. I Found My Man But I Still Need My Girls

Found My Man Bridesmaid Card
Found My Man Bridesmaid Card

Funny

The next category is not for everyone but if you love sarcasm, cursing, and honesty, then this is for you. Keep it light and funny with these ideas.


12. Will You Be My Bitch?

Will You Be My Bitch Bridesmaid Card
Will You Be My Bitch Bridesmaid Card

13. I Got My Man, but I Need My Bitches to Fix My Wedding Day Glitches

Wedding Day Glitches Bridesmaid Card
Wedding Day Glitches Bridesmaid Card

14. Ain’t No Party Like a Bridal Party

Ain't No Party Bridesmaid Ask Card
Ain’t No Party Bridesmaid Ask Card

15. Shit Just Got Real

Shit Just Got Real Bridesmaid Card
Shit Just Got Real Bridesmaid Card

16. Please Help Me Keep My Shit Together

Help Me Keep My Shit Together Card
Help Me Keep My Shit Together Card

17. I’m Getting Hitched and I Need a Bitch

I'm Getting Hitched Bridesmaid Card
I’m Getting Hitched Bridesmaid Card

18. I Know of a Great Party With an Open Bar…

A Great Party Bridesmaid Card
A Great Party Bridesmaid Card

Rhyming & Wordplay

I enjoy anything with great wordplay which is probably why this next category is the largest. Find 16 phrases that rhyme, use wordplay, or both. They are some of my absolute favorites.

19. Pop the Bubbly, I’m Getting Hubby

Pop the Bubbly Bridesmaid Card
Pop the Bubbly Bridesmaid Card

20. Time for Wine, His Last Name is Mine

Time For Wine Bridesmaid Ask Card
Time For Wine Bridesmaid Ask Card

21. I Got My Ring, Now Let’s Do This Thing

I Got My Ring Bridesmaid Card
I Got My Ring Bridesmaid Card

22. I Don’t Know When or Where, But I Know I Want You There!

Don't Know When Bridesmaid Card
Don’t Know When Bridesmaid Card

23. I Found My Mister, But I Still Need My Sister

I Have My Mister Bridesmaid Card
I Have My Mister Bridesmaid Card

24. I Can’t Say I Do Without You

I Can't Say I Do Without You Card
I Can’t Say I Do Without You Card

25. Take a Shot, I’m Tying the Knot

Take a Shot, I'm Tying the Knot Bridesmaid Card
Take a Shot, I’m Tying the Knot Bridesmaid Card

26. My “I Do” Would Not Be The Same Without You

My "I Do" Would Not Be the Same Without You
My “I Do” Would Not Be the Same Without You

27. As I Prepare for the Day That I Will Be a Bride, It Would Mean the World to Me to Have You By My Side

Have You By My Side Bridesmaid Card
Have You By My Side Bridesmaid Card

28. I’m Tying the Knot, and I Need Someone Hot

Tying the Knot Bridesmaid Ask Card
Tying the Knot Bridesmaid Ask Card

29. You’ve Stood Beside Me Through Thick and Thin, Now I Need You There When I Marry Him

You Stood By Through Thick And Thin Bridesmaid Card
You Stood By Through Thick And Thin Bridesmaid Card

30. I’m Such a Lucky Bride, to Have You By My Side

Lucky Bride Bridesmaid Ask Card
Lucky Bride Bridesmaid Ask Card

31. Wine Not Be My…

Wine Not Be My Bridesmaid Card
Wine Not Be My Bridesmaid Card

32. I Donut Want to Get Married Without You

Donut Themed Bridesmaid Ask


33. Pop, Clink, Dance, Twirl, I Got My Guy, Now I Need My Girl

Pop, Clink, Dance, Twirl, Bridesmaid Ask Ideas
Pop, Clink, Dance, Twirl, Bridesmaid Ask Ideas

34. I Got My Rock, Now I Need My Flock

Need My Flock Bridesmaid Ask Card
Need My Flock Bridesmaid Ask Card

35. I Can’t Marry My Mister, Without My Sister

Can't Marry My Mister Without My Sister Card
Can’t Marry My Mister Without My Sister Card

Flattery

Maybe you have a friend that loves flattery. To be honest, doesn’t everyone? These next few phrases are definitely designed to get into good graces with your family and friends. They will allow you to butter them up before asking for their help.

36. You’re Pretty

You're Pretty Bridesmaid Ask Card
You’re Pretty Bridesmaid Ask Card

37. The Best Day Ever Includes You

Best Day Ever Bridesmaid Card
Best Day Ever Bridesmaid Card

38. You Nailed it at Being My Friend, Now Will You Be My…

You Nailed It At Being My Friend Card
You Nailed It At Being My Friend Card

39. I Need Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue, and You

I Need Something... Bridesmaid Ask Card
I Need Something… Bridesmaid Ask Card

Honest

Last up is the honest category. This category may or may not be for everyone as well, but I find it too fun.

40. I Might Make You Hold My Dress as I Pee, Make You Go On Silly Errands, or Totally Annoy You

I Might Make You Bridesmaid Ask Card
I Might Make You Bridesmaid Ask Card

41. I’m Going to Need Someone to Make Sure I Don’t Ugly Cry

I Need Someone to Make Sure I Don't Ugly Cry Bridesmaid Card
I Need Someone to Make Sure I Don’t Ugly Cry Bridesmaid Card

42. You Were There Through All the Frogs, Now I Need You For My Prince

You Were There Through the Frogs Bridesmaid Card
You Were There Through the Frogs Bridesmaid Card

43. Now Act Surprised, Like You Had No Idea This Was Coming

Now Act Surprised Bridesmaid Ask Idea
Now Act Surprised Bridesmaid Ask Idea

44. He’s Marrying Me But He’s Stuck With Us

Stuck with Us Bridesmaid Ask Card
Stuck with Us Bridesmaid Ask Card

45. If I Promise… No Bows on the Butt, Ugly colors, or Puffy Sleeves

If I Promise Bridesmaid Ask Card
If I Promise Bridesmaid Ask Card

46. Soon, You’ll Be My Sister, But Until Then…

Soon You'll Be My Sister Bridesmaid Card
Soon You’ll Be My Sister Bridesmaid Card

47. Obviously, You’re Going to Be My…

Obviously Bridesmaid Ask Card
Obviously Bridesmaid Ask Card

48. I Can’t Promise I Won’t Be a Bridezilla or Make You Wear Ruffles, but I Can Promise There Will Be Alcohol

I Can't Promise Bridesmaid Ask Card
I Can’t Promise Bridesmaid Ask Card

49. Now You Can Stop Asking “When are you going to get married?”

Now You Can Stop Asking Bridesmaid Card
Now You Can Stop Asking Bridesmaid Card

50. Got New Excuses to Drink

Got New Excuses to Drink Bridesmaid Card
Got New Excuses to Drink Bridesmaid Card

Freebies

Download 5 Free Bridesmaid Ask Cards
Download 5 Free Bridesmaid Ask Cards

If you loved any of the above phrases, then don’t forget to download our 5 free cards on the Journey Junkies page. You can sign up here, if you missed the link.

If you’re looking for more bridesmaid ask ideas, be sure you also check out our post here on new ways to ask your girls to be a part of your day!

Be sure to let us know of any bridesmaid ask ideas you have that aren’t above in the comments. I love new ideas.

Bridesmaid Ask Ideas: 50 Phrases to Ask Your Girls to be Part of Your Wedding

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